Thursday, February 14, 2013

WIFE - the Wise Investment For Ever

God created man and woman to build a life together and to COMPLETE one another their entire life. The success of a life together depends on multiple factors. In today's multi-faced life style, we are exposed to almost everything. The society expects a quick turnaround when it comes to adapting to the new life style which makes even the consequences so unpredictable.

When the journey of life goes on, the husband and wife learns to lead the family after few mistakes and fights. But when the problem gets along with their ego, it goes on till somebody steps in to propose a solution. No two fingers in your hand are alike, obviously opinions differ, and trying to solve them is the best solution. But the question arises, who?

The role of the husband and wife has drastically changed in the last two decades in this nation. A wife was to primarily fulfill the role of helpmate to her husband and mother to her children, only venturing out of the bounds of the household where in the husband would primarily be involved in earning for the family, was a long told story.

Marital relationship will no longer be a relationship in which the female provides the male with her biological drives. It will rather be a human relationship where each partner, male or female, makes use of his distinguishing characteristics in order to give the other what pleases them and what satisfies both their emotional and their physical needs. And just like men are responsible of the society, women also are equally responsible of the society they live in.

It is very important to understand that, outside the framework of the specifically motherhood and fatherhood characteristics, where they perform absolutely different functions, men and women have vast areas to conquer, building life shoulder to shoulder as human beings, equal in humanity

The duty of a wife is to make the ideal home built with peace and harmony for the family to grow. She is your address and the face of your family to this world. And the duty of the husband is to ensure and help his wife to make the home a better place. He must learn, acknowledge, advice and walk with her because she is the Wise Investment For Ever (WIFE)

Be it a lad or lass - Misunderstanding
Is like a crack in glass
Be it husband or wife - Ego
Brings havoc in life
Be the Man for your Woman – and
Your life will be heaven

Friday, February 1, 2013

Horizons

When you ask people this question what is important in life? I am sure you'll not get the same answer every time. Some possible answers could be "Earning more money to save for the Future" or "Buy a house before market prices go up" or could be even "Switch my current job to earn more". Let me also guarantee that you might not get the same reply from the same person if you are asking for the second time.

There may be few constraints why they do not end up with the same reply. First, the subject of question is not physics or chemistry to reply back the definition of an atom or the structure of Benzene. Second could be the time of posting the question. Because people always have constraints based on which they may select the choice. The third and the most important is that the people whom you are asking the question. Obviously their contribution towards the answer is very important for topic we are talking about........................
This is a glimpse of my book "Horoizons" published recently in Amazon. Visit "Horizons" via the following link and share your comments.

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